Relying on Force and Flaunting One’s Superiority Leads to Destruction
This is a concrete embodiment
of ancient Chinese philosopher Laozi’s concept of shourou (守 maintain; 柔 tenderness, gentleness). Laozi believed that every object has
two sides, firmness as well as tenderness, strength as well as weakness. These
two sides are not absolute, but under certain conditions, they can transform
into the other. However, in the long run, things that appear to be firm and
strong have in actuality reached its optimum, whereas things that are seemingly
tender and weak are still full of vitality and vigor, and can escalate even
further, just as those states which rely on force and flaunt their superiority
everywhere will ultimately move towards their own destruction. This tells us
that, in governing a state, or in managing interpersonal relations, one should
never be overly staunch, and should not bully the weak. Instead, one should
conquer the unyielding with gentleness, be firm but gentle, and tamper force
with mercy, and only then can stability and harmony be achieved.